There appears to have been a good deal composed about physique language within the previous decade, I guess it satisfies our want to believe that we can know what one more individual is thinking.
Unfortunately, 99% of it is complete rubbish. There are almost no scientifically verified body language patterns, with broad variations between cultures and in diverse contexts.
So no, someone crossing their arms does not imply they are defensive. They might be feeling defensive but that is not what the physique language is declaring, it’s not an explicit language that communicates intentions (for that make any difference, neither is English).
The only true strategy to read a person is by starting to be delicate to their physique language cues when encountering or explicitly stating that they're experiencing a specific emotion. The language with the physiology is highly person, situational and has many different diverse meanings unless it can be repeated consistently within the exact same emotional state.
Anyway, now the great news. I need to share with you the couple of body language cues that have been tried and tested experimentally, they're cross cultural and very reliable.
The very first is any touching from the encounter, particularly the nose or ears. Generally this indicates deception, but beware; Opiate based pain killers can create the identical behavior!
Now this performs in two methods inside the context of seduction - you can inform once the girls is lying and in addition you now know to maintain your personal fingers absent from your deal with when interacting. This cue is interpreted unconsciously from the lady like a indication of deception, and she is going to expertise the feeling which you can't be trusted. Attempt it out.
I’ll share some more potent universal physique language cues in later on posts, but I truly need to get this message across to you personally - If physique language is person then this provides you a powerful tool of seduction, discover her body language when she is encountering certain emotions (possibly telling you a story) and you may have a physiological map of how her feelings are anchored in her physique.
What in the event you reproduced those unconscious body anchors in your very own physiology, perhaps to create sexual states and anchor them to you personally? Then you definitely wouldn't need to read female body language but use it to generate and reproduce states in her thoughts unconsciously…this is one i’ll come back to.